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On the other hand, some people may need to poop, but not realize it. Unfortunately, a weakened anal sphincter (the muscle around the anus) or nerve problems makes it difficult to recognize that the rectum is filling. In this case, you need to train your bowels by sitting down on the toilet even if you don’t feel the urge to go. Another technique involves strengthening the anal sphincter with Kegel exercises. Like all muscles, the sphincter can be weakened. Kegel exercises involve squeezing and holding the muscles in the pelvic area, which then strengthens the muscles and helps them function better during bowel movements.
I don’t think, however, that those who “fail” in abstinence in marriage are guilty of a moral fault. One of the ways that we are fearfully and wonderfully made is that we have a legitimate desire for our spouse. For many women that desire is actually the greatest at the time of the greatest fertility. We’re designed that way. We may, for serious reasons, put that aside. However, there’s not necessarily something wrong with us if we don’t. A conception doesn’t necessarily happen just because you are intimate at the most fertile time. Loads of infertile couples will tell you that all of the exact timing in the world does not result in a baby unless God wills it. A loving married couple does need to look at the goods of both people, and sometimes NFP is a way to be loving towards one or the other spouse due to health issues, or due to one or the other being too overwhelmed to eagerly welcome another baby into the family. However, beyond being loving to your spouse, it seems to me, that a “failure” in abstinence is simply loving your spouse in the way that married couples express love.